Recently I misplaced my cell phone for an afternoon and was
reduced to communicating with people by email.
I wrote to two people inviting them to meet for coffee One I’d actually met in a coffee shop, but I
realized after I’d sent the email, he probably didn’t remember that. The other person had some interests in common
with me and when I suggested we Link (if that’s the correct verb) she not only
linked but did so via a very voluble email referencing her work experience and
some of mine. So I emailed suggesting
coffee. In both cases no response. No problem.
In a week or so I might call them (hope it doesn’t scare them to
death) chat a bit to reassure them I’m not a maniac and try the coffee invitation again. Or maybe
not. But the experience is a reminder not to confuse “contact” on Linked in or
“following” on Twitter, “friending” on Facebook etc.) with real in person contact,
following (oops that might be stalking and both creepy and illegal)or becoming
friends.
But that’s not really what I want to talk about. I want to talk about the people who read my
blog. I was surprised when I looked at
the numbers, to see my“ dear readers” to use an old-fashioned and nicely
personal phrase, were more numerous than I’d expected. What surprised me more is they come from all
over the world. Recently I discovered I habe quite a few readers in Russia, Romania, China,
Venezuela, and France (Vous allez bien?) as well as the U.S. . I wonder why.And I wonder who you are as individuals, whether in the U.S. or another country. You know me but I don't know you. And I'd like to.
Community is important to me. Communication is important to
me too. And with the exception of novels
and other forms of literature, for me communication, as well as community, involve dialogue. So here’s what it
is. I don’t want to feel as if I’m
shouting into a megaphone with my blog: I’d rather feel like I’m having coffee
with you individually. So to each of you out there in a very real some place, would you please introduce yourself? Let know why you read my blog or at least some of the posts and why? I’d love to
hear what captures your imagination, what your passion is, how you spend your
days. A sentence or two would suffice. A
paragraph or ten would be fine too. You
can comment or email me. Hide your identity if you want. I don’t care. But I would like you to "meet" you. That way, next time I write a blog post I’ll
have you in mind and maybe even know whether to offer you coffee, tea or some
red wine if we ever do meet. That would be nice. And thanks Jim Morrison, wherever you are, I love your song.
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